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Post #41 · Posted at 2015-08-14 12:12:53am 8.6 years ago

Offline bmhedgehog
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Oh yeah, one thing I forgot to mention: During our trip to Starbucks she told me most of the guys she's met just want to do "it" with her and that I'm the first guy who she he really enjoyed being with. (I couldn't hear what she said exactly because the streets were so noisy)

Well that is a definite plus. And that is a rarity for her.

Post #42 · Posted at 2015-08-15 06:35:21am 8.6 years ago

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Your doing pretty good so far,just play it cool for a while more till she gives in

That's the hard part.

Oh yeah, one thing I forgot to mention: During our trip to Starbucks she told me most of the guys she's met just want to do "it" with her and that I'm the first guy who she he really enjoyed being with. (I couldn't hear what she said exactly because the streets were so noisy)



what is?
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Post #43 · Posted at 2015-08-15 02:45:30pm 8.6 years ago

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Quote: Kh0ldst@re
Oh yeah, one thing I forgot to mention: During our trip to Starbucks she told me most of the guys she's met just want to do "it" with her and that I'm the first guy who she he really enjoyed being with. (I couldn't hear what she said exactly because the streets were so noisy)

I would say try to take that same confidence those guys that just want to do "it" with her have, and instead use it yourself in a more positive way with her without the doing "it" part. She will admire your confidence around her and she will feel safe around you, while also enjoying the respect and attention you demonstrate her. Always make sure she feels comfortable around you.

Post #44 · Posted at 2015-08-15 07:07:49pm 8.6 years ago

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Oh yeah, one thing I forgot to mention: During our trip to Starbucks she told me most of the guys she's met just want to do "it" with her and that I'm the first guy who she he really enjoyed being with. (I couldn't hear what she said exactly because the streets were so noisy)

I would say try to take that same confidence those guys that just want to do "it" with her have, and instead use it yourself in a more positive way with her without the doing "it" part. She will admire your confidence around her and she will feel safe around you, while also enjoying the respect and attention you demonstrate her. Always make sure she feels comfortable around you.

Fixed.

And NicholasNRG is correct.

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What is?
Waiting?

Sometimes waiting is a very hard thing to do. Look at me, for example, I'm 32 years old and I'm still waiting for a G/F. Although I'd admit that I would epic fail on waiting to do "it".

Post #45 · Posted at 2015-08-15 07:56:13pm 8.6 years ago

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Post #46 · Posted at 2015-08-18 09:05:54pm 8.6 years ago

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Have to go to the dentist tomorrow. Having at least two teeth taken out. Kind of nervous, about to have a panic attack. Lovely.
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Post #47 · Posted at 2015-08-18 10:22:54pm 8.6 years ago

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Have to go to the dentist tomorrow. Having at least two teeth taken out. Kind of nervous, about to have a panic attack. Lovely.

The dentist is wonderful place! At least it was. Back in my day, there were these TVs that had PS2s hooked up to them. I remember playing a Sly Bandicoot sequel on one of them <3 Other times, I would just be watching Filipino dramas on their TVs. Anyways, let's get back on track.

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"You're lying prone, a dentist is hovering above you, and he's putting you in a situation where you can hardly talk or respond. That creates a lot of anxiety for some people because they don't feel in control."

Basically, you're in a momentary state of vulnerability. Allow me to ease your anxiety.

I, myself, have never really had a fear of the dentist (Although, I always cringe whenever their metallic tools hit my teeth...-shudders-). I might only be saying that, because I never really had any major operations. Other than getting braces, of course. I think it was because I had my mother around, maybe because all of the workers were Filipino, or maybe watching those Filipino dramas before going into their office calmed me down (Let's play a drinking game! Take a shot whenever I mention my ethnicity! -cough- Filipino -cough-. Jk.).

But yeah, there's no real reason to be afraid of the dentist. If it's pain you're worried about, your mouth will be under anesthesia. Your mouth will be numbed, thus preventing you from feeling anything major during the operation. If it's the dentist, or his/her assistants that you fear, well, what's there to fear? Dentists and their assistants, are one of the most caring people in the world. They do their damned best to calm you down, and if you can still talk, you two can have a pretty damn good conversation about anything. They're there, to take your mind off of the slight amount of pain you'll feel. Just like the Doctor's office! Here is what dentists do.

Quote: Peter Milgrom, DDS
-They gently explain what the patient will soon feel, and for about how long.
-They frequently ask the patient for permission to continue.
-They give the patient the opportunity to stop the procedure at any time the patient feels uncomfortable. ("I give them a cue, If for any reason they need to stop, raise your left hand.")
-They make time for breaks as requested.

Now, I'm pretty sure you're still going to be nervous when you walk into that office, sit down in that chair, and let the dentist do their thing. That's ok. Sometimes, our fears take a while to conquer. Just remember, they are there to make sure your (dental) operation is quick and painless. You just need to cooperate with them.

Well kid, good luck on your dental operation! Just remember to put your trust into the dentist, and everything will be smooth sailing from there. I'm pretty sure you won't get any panic attacks. That's only worse case scenario.

Stay safe. With best wishes,
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Post #48 · Posted at 2015-09-11 09:40:38pm 8.5 years ago

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Within a week I've gone from thinking my life was back on track to being a hysterical wreck.

In 2013, I broke up with my ex. It was brutal, with my fiancée going within 2 weeks from "having a wedding" to "being together" to "lol no bye". I hit an extreme downward slope, which still hurts me to this day, and I don't think I'll ever forgive myself for it.

Over the last two years, I've attempted to find another girl, and everything I have tried has failed. I built a very big crush on my best friend, and finally built up the courage to ask her out earlier on this year, only to be shot down, which...wrecked me. I THOUGHT I was all over her, until this weekend. It's at an anime con, where I'm already stressed out by having to try to get the DDR setup working and failing, even going home to bring my own pads to the event. So I'm stressed out, haven't played DDR for a YEAR, and in need of some good shit to happen. So, the Saturday night party rolls around, and after having a successful con in August, I figured that I could exorcise a demon by requesting the song I wanted as the first dance at my wedding. I hadn't heard the song since the breakup, and I thought that if I could get through it, dance with my best friend to it, I could finally get over what has plagued me for the last two years.

On the night itself, I am completely ignored by everyone. I realised that, despite being surrounded by 1,400 other people, I was still alone on the inside, just as I had always been since 2013. AND THEN THEY PLAY THE SONG. And then my heart is torn in two. After an hour crying and getting a pep-talk from my best friend, we go back in. Everything's OK for a bit, and then I see that she's kissing someone else. Properly going at it, this isn't alcohol induced or anything. I ran back to the hotel room and went home as early as I could get there, locked myself in my room, and cried solidly for an entire day.

This convention just took all my hope from me. I didn't realise how strong my feelings were still for her until she was being kissed, and I hate myself for still thinking that I had some small hope of a chance, and sadly, it seems now that all of my friends are getting involved in romantic relationships, and I've become the last one left. And until I get a relationship where someone actually loves me, I don't think I'm ever going to stop the pain that's in my heart.

As it stands, not only am I lonelier than ever, my parents are out on holiday, leaving me home alone for two weeks. My work has gotten more unrewarding and stressful than ever, and it seems I can't do ANYTHING without something going to shit.

Help.
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Post #49 · Posted at 2015-09-11 10:16:49pm 8.5 years ago

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Oni sent you a pm, i accedently clicked send with no words. Im sorry for that. PM me back please.

Post #50 · Posted at 2015-09-11 10:40:15pm 8.5 years ago

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Within a week I've gone from thinking my life was back on track to being a hysterical wreck.

In 2013, I broke up with my ex. It was brutal, with my fiancée going within 2 weeks from "having a wedding" to "being together" to "lol no bye". I hit an extreme downward slope, which still hurts me to this day, and I don't think I'll ever forgive myself for it.

Over the last two years, I've attempted to find another girl, and everything I have tried has failed. I built a very big crush on my best friend, and finally built up the courage to ask her out earlier on this year, only to be shot down, which...wrecked me. I THOUGHT I was all over her, until this weekend. It's at an anime con, where I'm already stressed out by having to try to get the DDR setup working and failing, even going home to bring my own pads to the event. So I'm stressed out, haven't played DDR for a YEAR, and in need of some good shit to happen. So, the Saturday night party rolls around, and after having a successful con in August, I figured that I could exorcise a demon by requesting the song I wanted as the first dance at my wedding. I hadn't heard the song since the breakup, and I thought that if I could get through it, dance with my best friend to it, I could finally get over what has plagued me for the last two years.

On the night itself, I am completely ignored by everyone. I realised that, despite being surrounded by 1,400 other people, I was still alone on the inside, just as I had always been since 2013. AND THEN THEY PLAY THE SONG. And then my heart is torn in two. After an hour crying and getting a pep-talk from my best friend, we go back in. Everything's OK for a bit, and then I see that she's kissing someone else. Properly going at it, this isn't alcohol induced or anything. I ran back to the hotel room and went home as early as I could get there, locked myself in my room, and cried solidly for an entire day.

This convention just took all my hope from me. I didn't realise how strong my feelings were still for her until she was being kissed, and I hate myself for still thinking that I had some small hope of a chance, and sadly, it seems now that all of my friends are getting involved in romantic relationships, and I've become the last one left. And until I get a relationship where someone actually loves me, I don't think I'm ever going to stop the pain that's in my heart.

As it stands, not only am I lonelier than ever, my parents are out on holiday, leaving me home alone for two weeks. My work has gotten more unrewarding and stressful than ever, and it seems I can't do ANYTHING without something going to shit.

Help.

Honestly, even though I am in a relationship, reading your story broke my heart. I'm not the best when it comes to therapy and such, so bear with me if you think my advice isn't that good.

But anyway, if there's anything I'd recommend you to do in this tough situation is to focus on one thing at a time. I know this sounds very vague, but I can tell from my experience with hardships in life, that if there was something in particular I could latch on to, I'd stick with it and it alone. It could be a particular hobby, or work, or anything. Anything that can distract you from the negative energy tearing you down right now. I have a hunch that the things that disturb you might work out by themselves so long as you don't lay all the energy on them.

I hope this can be of any help.
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Post #51 · Posted at 2015-09-12 12:29:42am 8.5 years ago

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Can't really say I know how you feel, because I obviously don't. Though I have a similar story, myself.

Some of you all may have known but sometime in 2014, I was engaged, myself. Well, mine actually ended literally one week before we were supposed to be married (we wanted a Halloween wedding.) Though as it turns out, not only did she have her heart set on someone else, she had planned to run off back to where she is originally from. (Seattle, WA to be exact.) - it wasn't just that, that got to me. This all comes after living with me for about two months, by the way, this wasn't all totally 100% onlinelol. But the thing that really got to me, was what she said after, and I know this is probably going to be controversial given my beliefs but: she is a transexual and said she had the feelings for "several years now". So really, I have a feeling she only sacked in with me was just to use and abuse me to get back to Seattle. (She had lived in North Carolina prior to living with me.) I had asked why she would even bother choosing Seattle over me was because, "The homeless shelters here are more like home to me." That's right, she gave me up for the homeless shelters, just because being homeless will pay for her gender transition.

On top of being jobless, I don't think I ever could recover from that. I wound up gaining about 50 pounds in fat from depression-eating and I've unfortunately grown to hate people even more than I did before and pray that an apocalypse occurs, if anything to "get people to open their damn eyes and stop being so goddamned empty inside." Certainly it's made me think even worse things about people though I'll retract on saying them here, lest it's just the severe loner depression talking. I've even had a blind date say on Facebook about a week after not even bothering to talk to me (I was the one who initiated conversation every time), she said something like, "Meh, boys r dumb, books are better." This all came after driving so many miles and wasting about $100 on a hotel room because it was a lengthy drive I couldn't do in just one day.

So all in all, I doubt my words will really help you, Oni, though you most damn sure aren't alone in all of this, and I bet there are many stories similar or even worse than ours. It probably means nothing to offer this, though I'm willing to talk to you about it all.

Post #52 · Posted at 2015-09-12 03:28:37am 8.5 years ago

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Quote: Oni-91
Within a week I've gone from thinking my life was back on track to being a hysterical wreck.

In 2013, I broke up with my ex. It was brutal, with my fiancée going within 2 weeks from "having a wedding" to "being together" to "lol no bye". I hit an extreme downward slope, which still hurts me to this day, and I don't think I'll ever forgive myself for it.

Over the last two years, I've attempted to find another girl, and everything I have tried has failed. I built a very big crush on my best friend, and finally built up the courage to ask her out earlier on this year, only to be shot down, which...wrecked me. I THOUGHT I was all over her, until this weekend. It's at an anime con, where I'm already stressed out by having to try to get the DDR setup working and failing, even going home to bring my own pads to the event. So I'm stressed out, haven't played DDR for a YEAR, and in need of some good shit to happen. So, the Saturday night party rolls around, and after having a successful con in August, I figured that I could exorcise a demon by requesting the song I wanted as the first dance at my wedding. I hadn't heard the song since the breakup, and I thought that if I could get through it, dance with my best friend to it, I could finally get over what has plagued me for the last two years.

On the night itself, I am completely ignored by everyone. I realised that, despite being surrounded by 1,400 other people, I was still alone on the inside, just as I had always been since 2013. AND THEN THEY PLAY THE SONG. And then my heart is torn in two. After an hour crying and getting a pep-talk from my best friend, we go back in. Everything's OK for a bit, and then I see that she's kissing someone else. Properly going at it, this isn't alcohol induced or anything. I ran back to the hotel room and went home as early as I could get there, locked myself in my room, and cried solidly for an entire day.

This convention just took all my hope from me. I didn't realise how strong my feelings were still for her until she was being kissed, and I hate myself for still thinking that I had some small hope of a chance, and sadly, it seems now that all of my friends are getting involved in romantic relationships, and I've become the last one left. And until I get a relationship where someone actually loves me, I don't think I'm ever going to stop the pain that's in my heart.

As it stands, not only am I lonelier than ever, my parents are out on holiday, leaving me home alone for two weeks. My work has gotten more unrewarding and stressful than ever, and it seems I can't do ANYTHING without something going to shit.

Help.

ONI SENPAI NOTICED MY THREAD!!! I'M GOING TO FAINT... -le faints-. Ahem. Anyways...Let's start.

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Oni, though you most damn sure aren't alone in all of this, and I bet there are many stories similar or even worse than ours. It probably means nothing to offer this, though I'm willing to talk to you about it all.

Okie said it better than me XD I feel ashamed.

Before I start, I feel honored. I will be happy to help you out, Mr. Oni-91. My advice might come off as dicey (I'm sorry if at the end, it does come off as dicey), but I will do my best to help out.

Love. Love is what we seek, to fill our void of loneliness. I don't know your motive for breaking up with her (you don't have to bring it up, if it hurts you), but if you feel guilty for doing so (to this day), you must find some form of closure. Perhaps the relationship escalated too quickly, and you felt like you weren't ready for a lifelong commitment. Maybe the only way you could think of was to break it off. Did you tell her how you truly felt, before you broke it off? If not, maybe that's what still hurts you. I'm probably wrong on the points I brought up. Regardless, if you're still hurting and you can't forgive yourself, find the source of your hurt and end it in whatever way you can. One option is, If you're still in contact with her (this is only if you want to), call her once more just to tell her how you feel. Perhaps she'll understand, forgive you, and that will ease your hurt spirit. Forgiveness is the best form of closure. There are different options to ease your hurt. You're the only one who can find the cure.

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If your partner is not your best friend, your relationship will not pass the test of time. Your relationship can never be judged as a great success. There is no equivocation when it comes to this point. Best friends provide each other with total trust, loyalty, mutual respect, admiration, encouragement, support, care and much more [s].

I've noticed this a lot. Friends (if not, best friends), often build up feelings for each other in the long run. They feel they are compatible with one another, as evidenced by mutual interests and a long-time friendship. The one flaw that I find in this: If one chooses to have their best friend as their lifetime partner, they've now crossed a boundary. The love of a romantic partner, is much more complicated than the love of a friend. Comparing the two: Both forms of love have their (metaphorical) grueling battlefield wars, and (once again, metaphorical) walks on the beach. In a more simpler form, ask yourself this: 'Could I really see myself putting a ring on my friend, having kids, and spending our honeymoon in the Bahamas?'. I'm fairly certain you didn't want it to go this far, but it is that type of intimacy you should think about, if you want a romantic relationship with your friend. This is what probably went through her head. That being said, I admire the fact that you had feelings for someone you felt could trust your heart with.

Quote: Oni-91
And until I get a relationship where someone actually loves me, I don't think I'm ever going to stop the pain that's in my heart.

Is love the only thing that can cure this ache in your heart? Do you really need a relationship to fill this void? Would you really risk being in another heartbreak, just to put a band-aid over another scar?

Sorry for being a bit harsh. I'm not telling you to give up your search for love, nor am I firing you up so you can find the right gal to be with. I'm merely wanting you to ask these questions to yourself. My English teacher from high school sums it up, in a quote from his farewell speech.

Quote: Mr. Acosta
At the end of the day, even if you're sleeping next to someone you love, you're still sleeping alone.

Basically, even if you find your true love, you will always have that feeling of loneliness. It's inevitable. I hate to say it, but life is not a fairy tale. If you want a fairy tale ending, you have to struggle for it.

That being said, you'll only feel that loneliness at night. I'm going to remind you this. You are a moderator of a website, that numerous members. Just because you're a moderator, doesn't mean you have to play 'Good cop, Bad cop' 24/7. These guys have hearts. They will always be here for you, to have a chat with you, to help you ease this feeling of loneliness and heartache. Everybody is different: They can make or break your day, depending on their personality. At the end of they day, when you lie in bed; you'll be feeling angry or happy, thanks to the people on this site. Sure as hell you won't be feeling lonely, if not as lonely per usual. We'll be here for you, Mr. Oni-91. You may be a moderator, but we're all sure as hell, that you're a human being who struggles with everyday problems, like we do. In conclusion, me, along with the members on here, wish you nothing but happiness in your future endeavors. Here's to you, Mr. Oni-91.

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Post #53 · Posted at 2015-09-12 04:49:52am 8.5 years ago

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@ Oni: I know how you feel Oni. We're all in the same leaky boat to China.

@ CynicalOkie: You had a Tranny for a GF. You lucky dog you. I'd die to have a Tranny for a GF, maybe more so a hermaphrodite. But hey if I do get a regular/normal GF I'd be happy.

Post #54 · Posted at 2015-09-13 03:54:13pm 8.5 years ago

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Quote: bmhedgehog
You had a Tranny for a GF. You lucky dog you. I'd die to have a Tranny for a GF, maybe more so a hermaphrodite. But hey if I do get a regular/normal GF I'd be happy.

... Wow.
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Post #55 · Posted at 2015-09-13 08:22:22pm 8.5 years ago

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Quote: bmhedgehog
You had a Tranny for a GF. You lucky dog you. I'd die to have a Tranny for a GF, maybe more so a hermaphrodite. But hey if I do get a regular/normal GF I'd be happy.

... Wow.

yep. 32 years old. Still a virgin and quite possibly (if not totally) sexually deprived. This is the price I pay for not having a GF in high/grade school, yeah back then I felt women were a distraction and didn't believe in teenage pregnancies.

Post #56 · Posted at 2015-09-13 08:26:11pm 8.5 years ago

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No, I was saying 'wow' at the fact that you refer to transsexual people as 'trannies', but okay...
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Post #57 · Posted at 2015-09-13 08:28:08pm 8.5 years ago

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well what else do you call them Roll Eyes

Post #58 · Posted at 2015-09-13 08:29:10pm 8.5 years ago

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Trans? It's like calling a homosexual a 'faggot'.
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Post #59 · Posted at 2015-09-14 01:21:40am 8.5 years ago

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Quote: bmhedgehog
You had a Tranny for a GF. You lucky dog you. I'd die to have a Tranny for a GF, maybe more so a hermaphrodite. But hey if I do get a regular/normal GF I'd be happy.

This goes for everyone, not just bmhedgehog. Only contribute to the thread, if you want advice, or want to give advice.

Basically, don't sh*tpost, don't be salty, and...

DON'T LET THIS BE ANOTHER 'LET IT OUT' THREAD aka one huge clusterfuck of random posts.

I want this to be an environment, where people can feel comfortable about talking out their feelings. If people on this thread are making unnecessary posts, how can this thread be taken seriously?

In the future, please contribute properly via asking for advice, or giving advice. Take this thread seriously, and above all, keep the environment a friendly one. In short: Don't abuse this thread.

Sincerely,
SoulEdge5000
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EDIT: A new rule has been added!
Quote: SoulEdge5000
5. You can ask for advice as much as you like!
It beats seeing unnecessary posts. There's no set limit as to how many times you can give advice, but if you feel the person's been helped out enough, there's no need to give more advice. This rule is pretty vague, so you can interpret it however you like.

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Post #60 · Posted at 2015-09-16 12:30:52pm 8.5 years ago

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11 days without hope.

I took this week off work, and it seems to have done nothing. I still end up crying most of the time because literally everything I do reminds me of her, and knowing that she's off with her new man just breaks me. It's like everyone's gotten on with their lives, and I can't, because I have none to go to. There's literally nothing in my life I am finding fun any more, and I'm scared that at some point I'm going to give up.
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